摩登家庭第四季

中国的年轻人特别喜欢回忆小时候，不为别的，因为那时最幸福。

有家人在身边，年龄相仿的表哥表姐表妹堂哥堂姐堂妹叔叔婶婶舅舅姑姑，等等。

如今，很多人背井离乡。

背负着期望，这期望折合起来其实就是RMB的多少。

以前，一些小事都会让你很快乐。

现在，摩登家庭里的生活模式，好像你向往的。

Claire每次万圣节的点子都好棒，我很喜欢她的点子。

虽然她被禁了😂Phil骑着Jay的哈雷被它压住留视频遗言每次看都觉得很好笑。

Manny过生日这集超好看，全程无尿点🤣又好笑又温情，Gloria不想宝宝在分掉母爱的同时还分掉Manny的生日真的好暖呀，听说那个吻还真是Manny演员的初吻💋Manny喜欢的那个叫达丽娅的保姆很好唉，温柔又智慧。

从Luke每次教别人都好搞笑，从教Gloria骑自行车到他教米球打手球，铁腕教练反差萌，关键还都很有效果。

MF每次致敬教父真的都还挺经典的。

Phil麻麻离开那里我很喜欢Alex最后读信，信的内容温暖又浪漫，Alex读信的声音也很好听很温柔。

Phil“就算哪个小家伙打出五个全垒打，赛场上最耀眼的明星依然是Claire。

这就是婚姻的可笑之处，你爱上了一个卓越优秀的人，但随着时间推移，却只能看到对方的平凡。

”这集应该给支持女人做家庭主妇的看看，Claire作为一个喜剧里的富二代，因为做主妇的时间太久，一连五次被拒，她不过是想给孩子攒学费，给老公买礼物，给自己买双靴子，用自己的钱😀最后说一句，Phil的竞争对手，格尔索普真的好讨厌啊！

#12Phil: Nice game of chicken, Claire. She's gone!Claire: She is coming back. I am almost positive.Phil: Why do I listen to you? Why? You were wrong about the iPod being a failure. You were wrong about tomato being a vegetable. I don't even want to talk about your favorite "Planet" Pluto! Haley:You were going to let me go with him?Claire: Isn't that what you wanted, honey?Haley: What's the matter with you?! You've been acting so weird ever since I left college! Claire: For the record, you didn't leave college. You were asked to leave.Haley: Oh, which you guys never let me forget, especially dad.Claire: Honey, your father...Haley: Oh, you don't have to tell me what he thinks, okay? I'm a huge disappointment to him. I see it on his face every day. He acts as if he doesn't even want me around.Phil: Give me the ticket for the car.Claire: Phil...Phil: I'm going after her! This little chicken game may work for your dad, but it doesn't work for me. That's my little girl. I need her to know that no guy on earth is good enough for her, let alone some slimy, middle-aged jean salesman!Phil: What's this?Claire: Just enjoy it.Jay: There's all kinds of milestones in life. The kind you expect to live through... The first kiss. Birthdays. Graduations. If you're lucky, a wedding or two. Or even a new addition to the family. You never dreamed you'd get to live through again. And that's the best kind of all. Why am I spoiling it for you? You'll see for yourself.#22Haley: Uh, what do you think you're doing out there?Alex: I'm flirting.Haley: That's what I was afraid of.Alex: Look, I'm not gonna pretend I'm stupid just so a boy will like me.Haley: Of course not. But you don't have to put the poor guy to shame. Flirting with boys is about increasing your value, not decreasing theirs.Alex: That's a complicated thought. What magazine taught you that?Haley: You're doing it again! The mean things. Can you even hear it or what?!Alex: I heard it.Haley: Good. So now that he knows that you're smart, let's work on being nice.Haley & Alex: We won!Boy A & B: Man, that sucks! Yeah, totally un-masculating.Alex: Well, at least you guys look cool when you play.Boy A & B: Let's play again. This never happened.Haley: Actually, we need to go hang out with our family for a while.Boy A & B: Really? Now?Haley: Yeah, but we'll be around. We'll see you guys.Alex: What happened? Did I mess up?Haley: No, you did great.Alex: So he didn't like me?Haley: No, he totally liked you.Alex: Then why'd we walk away?Haley: This was never about him. This was about getting you some confidence. Guys will pick up on that. Better guys. Guys who can lose to a girl without feeling e-masculated.Alex: Okay, try not to throw this in my face one day, but sometimes you're actually really smart. Like, smart smart. I hope you know that.Haley: And I'm totally throwing that in your face one day. Are you kidding?Jay: Good guy.Cam: Who -- Teddy? Yeah. Yeah, he's the best.Jay: Nuts he can't find anybody, huh? Gotta be something a little off there. He definitely did not bring out the best in Mitchell, I can tell you that right now.Cam: Oh, really? Well, you know, not that it matters... but in what way exactly?Jay: Honestly? When they were together, Mitchell could be a bit of pill. Now, I like Teddy, but when they broke up, I was actually kinda glad. Of course , Mitchell thought that I was uncomfortable because of the gay thing, and maybe I was, but... I really just wanted him to be happy. Like he is now. And when you two started up, everyone thought, "Well, there it is."#Okay, kids. Couples skate. Grab someone you love and get out there.#Cam: Jay, you can be so...Jay: I'm not skating with you, Cam.Cam: Yeah.Claire: What about me, dad? You wanna skate with me?Manny: What qualifies someone as a hero? Obviously, a hero has to be someone we respect. A person we look up to. A person who is generous of spirit. Who's willing to grow and learn. Maybe it's the person you love most in the world or the guy who makes the most out of life, no matter what anyone thinks. For me, though... The hero in my family is my family because of who we are together.C-. "This was not the assignment." I'll tell you who is not my hero, Mrs. Rita Mcnabb.#24Phil: My daughter Alex would like to pay tribute.Alex: My grandmother and I had a very special bond. This may not make sense to everyone, but I'm pretty sure she would've loved it. "This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor, Paul Newman. One day, he came into the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left it behind. For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn't supposed to and slipped it into my pocket. One of the customers saw and said, "don't worry. Your secret's safe with me." That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather. So, my Alex, who I love so dearly, who is probably too much like me for her own good, every once in a while, don't be afraid to break the rules. You never know what can happen."

That's the funny thing about marriage, you fall in love with this extraordinary person, and over time they begin to seem ordinary.There are certain queer times and occasions in this strange, mixed affair we call life. when a man takes this whole universe for a vast practical joke. Though the wit thereof he but dimly discerns. And more than suspects that the joke is nobody's expense but his own.She was always doing crazy stuff like this going out of her way to take care of us.I coughed on the phone once and she overnighted me soup. When I wanted to learn how to ski, she knit me a sweater.When I wanted to be a marine biologist, she knit me a sweater with a whale on it.This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor, Paul Newman. One day, he came into the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left it behind.For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn't supposed to and slipped it into my pocket.One of the customers saw and said, "don't worry, your secret's safe with me."That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather.So my Alex, who I love so dearly, who's probably too much like me for her own good. Every once in a while, don't be afraid to break the rules.You never know what can happen.

This is a lighter. It belonged to my favorite actor Paul Newman. One day, he came to the restaurant where I was waitressing and accidentally left behind. For the first time in my life, I did something I wasn’t supposed to and slipped it into my pocket. One of the customer saw and said “Don’t worry. Your secret is safe with me.” That customer turned out to be the love of my life, your grandfather.So, my Alex, who I love so dearly, who is probably too much like me for her own good, every once in a while, don’t be afraid to break the rules. You never know what can happen.

摩登家庭，爱的教程。

第4季第24集，关键词：特殊的纽带。

作为这一季最后一集，压轴大戏真的容易让人瞬间飙泪。

Phil的妈妈去世了，却留给他一封非常特别的遗嘱，就是希望自己儿子牵线，把她认为一位美丽善良靠谱的老太太介绍给Phil的爸爸。

活着的时候就深切的爱，离世的时候让爱的人好好活着，大概爱的本意就全部融合在这样的倾诉和安排中了。

我们在这个世界上活着的时间并不长，每一天都本应该并值得在珍惜中度过。

量子物理的世界里，最微观层面能观测到的只有运动的夸克，运动产生的能量，其中的构成是“空”的；能观测到的电子是云的状态，无法标识，换言之它们是一模一样的。

完全的一模一样很可能是虚拟的。

如果我们接受这种假说，我们的世界真的可能只是一场完全虚拟的画面。

你唯一能感受到真实的，只能是自己的经历和体验，如果自己对自己的这部分本心都不尊重而是随波逐流的话，那么当你离开的时候可是真的就像是从未来过这个世界一样了。

家中的老二常常是懂事也被关注最少得那个孩子，东方西方概莫能外。

Alex的处境也差不多，所以也可能是拒绝体验和经历最多的孩子。

奶奶留给她一个打火机，大家都不知道这到底代表了什么。

直到最后我们才明白，打火机正是奶奶爱的起点、爱的见证、爱的象征、爱的体验。

奶奶是一个一辈子都认真爱经历爱实践爱的人，她和自己最爱的人相识就是通过这个打火机来的。

奶奶也把这份爱传递给了最像她的这个孙女，“我最爱的ALEX，可能你太像我了，虽然这也挺好，但偶尔的，不要害怕打破常规，你永远不知道会发生什么好事”。

摩登家庭，爱的教程。

第4季第21集，关键词：另一条职业的路。

Gloria不知道Jay竟然还有一个相当间谍小说作家的梦，虽然她拆穿Jay这是嘴上说说，有空闲时间的时候也是在睡觉，但是她决定创造个条件给Jay一个机会，让他专心坐在打字机前。

果不其然，Jay抓耳挠腮半天，吃吃饭擦擦桌，也只是写下了一行字，最后还是求助于Manny才写下了一个不错的故事。

Claire一直耿耿于怀她的家庭主妇的身份，她希望在工作中证明自己的才华，然而在遇到一个不靠谱的老板又让她不得不回来了。

我们常常想着在职业中怎么找到真正适合自己的路。

这部剧是关于爱的教程，其实选择职业和确认自己的爱何其相似。

爱是辨认。

这个世界有那么多人，绝大部分人可能没有机会和自己最爱的人相遇，相遇了可能不会相识，相识了可能不会相知。

如果你想有爱的能力，首先要做到的就是，当那个你爱着、爱着你的人出现的时候，你能辨认出来。

不要小看辨认的能力，如果你没有辨认出来，你就不会知道牢牢抓住千万不要让这个人离开你的眼脱开你的手有多重要。

爱是珍惜。

人这种生物，真的要说最大的劣根性是什么的话，就是不珍惜。

不珍惜不是说不爱了，而是不在那么小心翼翼、满心满眼、心无旁骛的时候，就会偏差，就是不珍惜。

天龙八部，天神为首，不注意珍惜的时候，正是天人五衰中最重要的一条。

不要等失去的时候，才开始痛哭流涕；不要等醒悟的时候，才发现错失太多。

或许你会在午夜梦回醒来，靠在床边，默默说我懂了我现在真的懂了，如果能在给我一次机会，我会好好把握。

相信我朋友，如果你没有痛上一阵子真正痛彻心扉钻心剜骨，大概你还会犯同样的错误的，多疼一会儿也好。

如果你真的懂得珍惜了而且竟又能获得让你珍惜的机会，祝福你朋友。

爱是勇敢。

爱大概是这个世界上最宝贵的东西，又是最容易失去的东西了。

你要有足够的勇敢，才能让外界的风雨不会侵蚀到爱，不会让自己的惰性伤害到爱。

用你注入的勇气让爱感应到，爱也会变的强大。

爱是坚持。

走过一时的爱很多，走过一生的爱很少。

如果你能遇到那个真正爱的人，你还能辨认出这个宝贵的人，你做好了珍惜和勇敢，这份爱会伴随着你，滋润你的一生。

一季的结束，结尾特别美好，绚烂的烟花犹如每次过年那种普天同庆的喜庆，就如同生命中每一次灿烂的美好，那么的刻骨铭心，那么的具有无与伦比的意思，像是登台演出，像是被所有人羡慕眼光所笼罩的那一刻，而跟那一样美丽的，最后一刻的黄昏和摇椅，完美的夏日，一切都是那么美好，那么的沁人心脾，好想生活在那里，过不完的夏天，漫长的海岸线，人烟稀少的住宅。

不断寻找的，努力的，发现的，一切还是无法打破生活的梗长，那种望不到头的日月，那些无尽的烦忧，那些无法使我充满希望的度过接下来的几十年。

一生中纠结的事有很多，缺少金钱，不够完美的容貌，得不到情人的全身心投入，或是失去本来所拥有的，有的不多失去的也不少，到了一定的年龄，有些事情身不由己。

不停的在想很多事情，却也突然明白，我要的努力，是在能力范畴之内的，其余的许多东西，可能真的不需要过多的苛求与索取，要想明白这些，放弃许多事情，真的是很不容易，不要把太多的事情放在眼里，真的很难，但可能这就是意思吧，一切都没有意思，活在其他的介质里，想要摆脱一切，真的是很难呢

摩登家庭，爱的教程。

第4季第19集，关键词：包容。

包容，真的是个老生常谈又常说常新的话题。

在一个有爱的家庭里，在一个有爱的关系里，包容常会被人提起却又常会被人忽略。

每个人都有每个人独特的成长环境和成长经历，也就必然导致了每个人都有着自己的所得和所失，满足和遗憾。

Lily渴望减少自己和两个爸爸的差异性，不愿意承认自己是越南人，想让自己的身份定位在同性恋，可Cam和Mitch希望她有无限的可能性，不要早早的给自己限定并抵制自己原生的身份，对Gloria来说，对祖国和来处的认同却是非常非常重要。

几个人在餐厅，越是为了强调自己的包容性，似乎越是巧合的得罪了各个不同身份认同的人。

在医院里，Phil和Clair自以为分别遇到了自己的教育理念下可能出现的孩子成长的负面性，马上给孩子打电话想让他们避免出现这种情况，孩子们误解他们是孩子气爆发让他们成熟一点。

这部剧的底色何尝不是最大程度的在强调包容，当我们承认自己的差异性，承认和爱的人之间存在的差异性，愿意接受自己的不完美并让自己圆满，接受爱的人的不完美并等待他/她的圆满，这又何尝不是包容的底色。

因为是TBBT在艾美奖强有力的竞争对手，所以我才看了这部剧，结果把四季一气看完，捧腹俯仰之间，更觉得一种温暖的幸福感。

故事的人物设定其实是一群很普通的危险关系：老夫少妻且异国恋的相处，继父与继子的相处，离婚后与ex的相处，中年夫妇的相处，一群年纪相仿的孩子相处，领养父母与孩子的相处，最大亮点——一堆男同夫妇同居后的相处。

这些显然都有潜在高危因素，因为文化，血缘，年龄，普世观念很容易有“火山爆发”的危险。

结果在这样一个家庭里能相处地如此和谐、幽默，不得不赞一下机智的编剧，人物设定下，让人看了觉得真的可能，且倍觉温暖和不易。

我想，这也是这部家庭喜剧甩一众家庭喜剧几条街的原因。

很多人说这部剧还玩了个小聪明，就是采取伪纪录片的形式来讲故事。

的确，既增加了幽默感，也增加了真实感，但是要知道这要冒一个很大的风险，就是流于平淡，很少有人能坐下来，一下子看完四季的纪录片就是这个原因。

编剧从塑造人物性格到凸显人物性格丝毫不露痕迹，甚至可以说渐臻佳境，让人迅速代入角色而不自知。

特别想说的是就是Jay和他的一对儿女，Jay就是控制欲强，喜好竞争，不善表达情感，并且或多或少遗传到Clare和Michle身上。

而且这种遗传其实放之四海而皆准，让人不禁想到自己的父母，从而生出不能再多的认同感，这一点我觉得在其他致力于塑造鲜活个性的家庭喜剧上并不多见，即使有，也很难做成一个亮点。

不得不提的是M&C这对夫妇，这也是我对这部剧想写点什么的原因：可以说，这部剧让我重新认识到同性恋的爱情，之前很少看到此类影视剧，连断背山都没能看完就弃了，个人觉得《老友记》罗斯的前妻是lesbian这条线似乎可以再展开一点，可是再一想毕竟不是主角，展开了除了浪费主线，而且在当时似乎也不为太多人认可。

而摩登家庭则不一样，在摩登的年代描绘一个摩登的夫妻，容易很多，也得心应手很多。

Micle是一个小律师，负责挣钱养家，Cam则是个“家庭主夫”，负责照看孩子，他们生活中的点点滴滴，展示给我们看一个真实的家庭，不是我们意淫出来的，也不掺杂腹诽和讽刺的家庭组合，他们向别人介绍对方为Partner，他们有自己特别的小圈子，能让他们在酒吧里一起谈天说地喝酒high歌，他们会为对方着想哪怕心里有一点不情愿，尊重对方的小爱好，会小心讨对方父母的欢心，对孩子，对家务。。。

真的是平常夫妻能做到的他们都做到了，而且那么贴心仔细，这是我一开始没有料想到的惊艳。

Cam的扮演者生活中是个直男，然而在剧中的表现真的是可圈可点，实属不易。

此前一度错误以为男同必然是两个相貌英姿都过人的男子，一度以为男同和女同是最容易亲近的团体，一度以为男同必然会有一方为男人一方为女人，果然认知太片面，惭愧不已。

最后，再想褒奖一下小演员们，几个主要的成年演员演技和水准自不必说，老道而鲜活，但是几个小演员，的确是真的用生命在演戏了。

少年老成的Manny，热衷派对的Hayley,书生气重的Alex，呆萌又聪明的Luke,看到他们坐在沙发上，像模像样地对着摄像机讲心里话，就顿时觉得乐不可支了，甚至根本不用开口好么。

我想这样一个摩登而幸福的家庭，一定治愈了很多很多人，不是那种“你饿了吧，我去给你下碗面吧”似的隔靴搔痒，而是“你看，大家都以为我不会这么幸福，但是我做到了，你比我容易很多，还有什么让你不好好过活？

”——本该如此，珍惜当下，珍惜眼前人，幸福本来就是是各有各的幸福。

希望这部剧一路拍下去，当然，我想，一定会的。