女人帮

第一次看，我很不能理解mia为什么一定要争胜。

为什么不能好好地收藏那枚钻戒，忍一忍，作出让步，成为一个幸福的新娘。

多年后重看，年过三十的我终于明白了为什么。

mia没有错。

在这个残酷的现实世界，并不存在让步这个词。

所谓的让步，你以为你仅仅是妥协了一次，你忍辱负重，你为爱牺牲，但这并不会有人感激。

曼哈顿不相信眼泪。

尤其是女人的眼泪。

你可以哭得像是梨花带雨一样，等着男人同情可怜抚慰，但当你心中窃喜将之拢到了石榴裙下的时候，你也已经变成了这个男人的战利品。

你就有如菟丝花，依附男人，从男人身上吸收养分，直到换一个男人，或是男人换一个更可怜更令他见猎心喜的女人。

假如当时mia让步了，心甘情愿辞职了，她的男友也不会感激她的牺牲。

她并不见得就会从此幸福快乐地当一个家庭主妇，她的男友也不会从此对她死心塌地永不离弃。

他永远都会记得，这个女人是他的手下败将，她是无法更进一步而不得不做了他的妻子。

她是他的俘虏，奴隶。

而对于mia来说，她宁死也不要变成这样一个失败者。

第一次看，我也很不理解为什么朱丽叶在还想跟丈夫重归于好的时候要提出自己也要出轨一次。

这无形对丈夫的心理造成了极大的压力。

但随着年龄的增长和阅历的丰富，我也渐渐明白了朱丽叶的心态。

无数人会说，如果你的丈夫出轨，你要以绝对的纯洁和无比的宽容去悦纳他，努力去唤他回头，而不是要自己也去出轨，这会让你的男人根本不想回头。

是的，这样会使你留住这个男人，也许不会。

他在出轨的时候他有尊重妻子吗？

他回头是因为这个妻子绝对纯洁和宽恕他的罪过，还是只是因为他不想失去他现在拥有的生活？

有人说不必斤斤计较。

但是，让步了，妥协了，牺牲了，他感激你了吗？

朱丽叶的丈夫只会继续跟情妇厮混，然后理直气壮地将出轨理由归咎于妻子的过于出色。

好像他自己不如妻子，错的反而是她太出色。

这个懦弱的男人，永远不会感激她。

朱丽叶的强势，正是在于她这种毫不退让妥协的精神。

做女人难，做女强人更难。

女人帮里面的四位女主角色都不讨好，因为男人敬畏她们，女人嫉恨她们。

而她们只会始终忠于自己的内心，永远追求更强。

看这部电视剧一半因为道道提起，一半因为前段时间心情焦虑斗志低落严重需要some stories to inspire meStories about intelligent and hard-working women collecting their strength and courage to deal with the problems coming one after another.虽然跟其他所有讲成功女性的电视剧一样Cashmere Mafia还是focus on她们的personal life多过how they work their places up不过总体来说还算不错起码我看完以后心情好一点了。。

能让我想起自己思考自己的目标和梦想并受到一点鼓励That's enough

很羡慕剧中女主角的生活，但为了工作而放弃一些东西那就。。。

i gotta say, their life is pretty cool. i wanna be a career lady at lease a couple of years.

一位是杂志社发行人，一位是高档酒店COO，一位是时装和化妆品公司高级营销副总裁，一位是并购公司常务董事。

这4位人们眼中的女强人在读商学院时相识，继而缔结深厚友谊。

4人定时相聚，无话不谈，分享工作与生活的点点滴滴。

且看这4人如何处理工作和生活的方方面面。

这是我前两天发现的一部美剧，看得我入迷平时不喜欢连贯的故事，偏爱每集独立故事的罪案和医务剧以及真人秀的我，无意中发现了这部如此精彩的说女人的剧，看得我热血沸腾！

其实之前看过《sex and the city》和《Lipstick Jungle》，都没觉得特别好看，吸引我的程度是那种可看可不看的类型。

但这部Cashmere Mafia却是我看了一遍还想再看一遍喜欢这四位女主角，精明干练，做事极有效率且情理都把握得很好，更重要四位都是极有魅力的美女。

这四位的友情更是让人羡慕。

平时通过message和电话随时联系，固定时间固定地点午餐聚会，遇突发情况其中一位一个call，其他人即使再忙也会腾出时间赴约，有什么事都大家一起商量解决，且工作资源都互享。

这可以说是彼此感情最深厚最无私最没有利益计较的四姐妹。

这四人彼此全心信任全面坦诚，绝没有任何一人心里有小九九更不会互相嫉妒猜忌。

这样的友情到哪里去寻？

尤其对处于这样高位的职场女性来说所以说这部剧让我看得非常感动。

在励志上来说，女人帮确实做得很好，让人深刻明白，女人之间也有如此让人感慨的友情，只有互帮互助才能达到更好。

喜欢剧中人物得体的服饰与精致的装扮。

08年初的剧，即使在现在09年底来看，服装和造型都是很fashion很有看头的看那一套套名牌套装和配饰，一个个名牌包包，穿戴在四位美女身上，真让人惊艳喜欢此剧紧凑的节奏和女主角们连珠炮似的谈话，表达清晰流畅，井井有条，逻辑鲜明，说服力强，这才是职场女强人的风范！

哈哈总之非常喜欢这部剧，真是相见恨晚哪！

可惜只有7集就不再拍摄下去，太遗憾了！！

可惜了这部好剧啊！！！

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"Dear modern man...you know what this modernwoman wants for breakfast?Maybe oatmeal.Bacon and eggs if she's craving protein.Definitely coffee,but relax.I'm not gonna have you for breakfast,so please don't be such awimp about women at work.It's high time to accept the fact thata woman might not just be your co-worker.She could be your boss,and you'regonna have to be prepared to deal,to be a man about it inthe true sense of the word.Sure,more working womenmeans more competition,but instead of being threatenedby it,be challenged by it.Let's bring out the best in each other.Win or lose,if you're agood sport,everybody wins.Until you get your head around this,you'llbe on your road,and I'll be on mine.I hope at some pointwe meet in the middle.Cheers,the modern woman."

AbstractFour ambitious, confident Manhattan women who have been best friends since biz school -- Mia, Zoe, Juliet and Caitlin -- try to lead their legendary career. They aren't just powerful and intelligent as singular executive sensations in today's corporate battlezones; they've bonded into a formidable unit --"Cashmere Mafia" -- to support and counsel each other through good times and bad. How better to climb up the corporate ladder than with your buddies at your side! Whether it's coping with rocky marriages, fending off scheming colleagues or just trying to find themselves in the midst of their chaotic lives, these remarkable women keep centered with their valuable friendship.Ambition always comes with a price.(Ep1)Competition starts from the very beginning, even if it's as trivial as anniversary but the real game later on bidding for the publisher trigger the battle between the two opponents plus lovers who just got engaged several mins ago. From the perspective of a man, if I may say, it's a shame for Jack to play dirty first even worse he got caught in the face of Mia. As the age-old saying points out Never underestimate your enemy especially when it's a woman. Worst comes to worst, after the last Peter Johnson case easily snatched by Mia with the help of her formidable sidekicks, Jack still don't get a lesson learned though he claimed to step up the security .He easily slipped the confidential info when he ,you know, presented his masculine charisma in bed .In this biz jungle the only possible consequence for this stupid behavior is a predictable failure. But the most impotent action is he cancelled the wedding. He try to keep his dignity as a man or a Male Chauvinism but it turned out to be just the other way round. Apparently he forget the cardinal rule for a great man that accept your failure which is part of your life and face it bravely, no matter who the winner is , your friend, your families or in this case, your fiancee. In a nutshell, when Carly Fiorina (former CEO of HP ) meet Larry Page(co-foundrer of Google) and fall in love ,what will happen?Since the first sight of Juilet ,I inevitably associate her with Bree Vande Kamp from Desperate Housewives, and the consequent scenario proved my thought .Both of them are elegant, dedicated to their jobs and ,sadly, cheated by their husband .But contrary to the gentle compromise of Bree, Juilet decide to illustrate her husband Davis the aftermath for irritating this powerful woman , a disaster. One resembling point Juilet share with Bree is the fear and despair of the potential fiasco of their marriage .One line moved me from Juilet is ''don't get me wrong I hate this but I hate being the alternative more I don't want to be a single mother, a blind date a third wheel .I love having someone to come home, to go to parties and do the postmortems with, to plan holidays for...'' . Every has the moments of desperation but for the mafia just don't let them have too often otherwise they will show you the definition of hell.Zoe is kinda my type girl and definately a catch. She wears a taking mile, gets actively involved into her career and has a strong sense of family. The issue for her in this episode is her nanny, or to be further ,a stereotype question, how to balance your family life with your career as a professional biz woman.In the following episodes,we will find her challenges are way above the nanny thing, the conspiring colleagues, the seduction to her adorable husband from the stayhome mother, but good thing is she handled them pretty well.Actually,she did a wonderful job ,both as a mother and a managing director. As for the Caitlin lesbian issue I choose to skip .It's way out of my league though the acting of Caitlin is cute.Generally speaking, Cashmere Mafia is a pretty feminism drama .We could clearly track down the ubiquitous remnant from the Sex and City. Still several loaded questions are raised and remain to be answered.This is my first review of a TV series, well ,officially. So any comment will be welcome and accepted. Have fun here PS: Anyone who watched this episode please leave your own review even one sentence will be desirable.

虽然编剧是同一个人，但是没有以前那么明显的特点，而且整体张力不足，就像更像是时装戏，每个主角都是社会强人，不乏有猎奇心理

喜欢那种很强势的作风,活在女人掌权的世界里的感觉!可同时你也能看到,它揭露了很多美国上流社会人员的普遍特征.就是在她们光鲜的外表下,有许多阴暗的难以明状的痛苦大概这样才算是真实的人生吧!

刚刚看完第6集，感觉越来越过瘾了。

先说一句，luck liu的长相... 我真是觉得不要让美国人误解成咱们这里的女人全是身高不够＋木兰式长相。

看管了白人女星在演这类角色，猛得来一中国女星，我是真的有点不习惯... 不过还好，她的mia还算不错～anyway，satc更梦幻，而cm感觉更现实一点（至少这几集是这样）。

mia和juliet的烦恼问题都不少，zoe一个事业有成的女性也是工作生活上都有麻烦，caitlin虽然没结婚，但是对于自己的性向还是比较不明确，而且因此也摔了跟头...不过这集过后，不知道剧情又会向什么地方发展了，感觉下一集开始，一个崭新的局面就要展开了......

翡翠台在播，看了一集有点意思，所以去买了碟。

才七集，有点少了。

那四个女人的友情挺好的。

偶也有几个这样的好友，大学同学，都在不同的城市，偶尔会开个SKPRE电话会议，或者到一个城市聚聚。

喝点小酒，吃大家都喜欢的食物，谈天说地，发牢骚也可以，很舒服。